Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Discover the 10-90 Rule of Attitude . How much...

How much do you see of an Iceberg?

Only 10% of any Iceberg is visible. The remaining 90% is below the sea level.

The Iceberg phenomenon is also applicable to we human beings ...

Do you know how?

Only 10% is what happens around us and 90% is how we react or respond to what happens and that's our Attitude.

Similarly, only 10% is our knowledge and skills. And remaining 90% is our Attitude.

In other words, our Attitude (values, standards, judgments, motives, ethics and beliefs) impact our Behavior. Hence, our life is a reflection of our attitudes.

Let each letter of the alphabetic has a value equals to it sequence of the alphabetical order:

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z
01 02 03 04 05 06 07 08 09 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26

S K I L L S Total
19 11 09 12 12 19 = 82%

K N O W L E D G E Total
11 14 15 23 12 05 04 07 05 = 96%

H A R D W O R K Total
08 01 18 04 23 15 18 11 = 98%
But:
A T T I T U D E Total
01 20 20 09 20 21 04 05 = 100%
Then, look how far the love of God will take you?
L O V E O F G O D Total
12 15 22 05 15 06 07 15 O4 = 101%

Therefore, one can conclude with mathematical certainty that:

While Skills, Knowledge and Hard Work will get you close, and Attitude will get you there, It's the Love of God that will put you over the top!

Note: A positive attitude is like a magnet for positive results. Positive attitudes create a chain reaction of positive thoughts. It's your attitude and not your aptitude that determines your altitude.

Monday, March 21, 2011

POINTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE

Personality:
1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment
3. Don't over do; keep your limits
4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does
5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip
6. Dream more while you are awake
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile and laugh more
14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Community:
15. Call your family often
16. Each day give something good to others
17. Forgive everyone for everything
18. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6
19. Try to make at least three people smile each day
20. What other people think of you is none of your business
21. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:
22. Put GOD first in anything and everything that you think, say and do.
23. GOD heals everything
24. Do the right things
25. However good or bad a situation is, it will change
26. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
27. The best is yet to come
28. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful
29. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it
30. If you know GOD you will always be happy. So, be happy.

Negative People Never Find Solutions, On The Other Hand They Enlarge Problems.
Negative People Prefer Lamentation, Gossip, Pessimism, Always Complaining.

A Bee Is Small But It Produces One Of The Sweetest Things That Exist.

"We Are What We Think"
"Never Belittle Yourself"
"You Have The Tools To Succeed, Its Your Thoughts & Beliefs"

"Negative Thoughts Generate Negative Energy"
"Positive Thoughts Generate Positive Energy"

Sunday, March 20, 2011

What the Best Bosses Do

What the Best Bosses Do

Inspire Others to Peak Performance
A transformational leader is one who excites and inspires people to perform far beyond their own expectations of themselves. Transformational leaders practice certain behaviors that cause their people to feel stronger, happier, more confident and more committed.

Delegate Responsibility
The first of these behaviors is the delegation of high levels of responsibility for results. Transformational leaders pick the right people, match them to the right jobs, achieve mutual clarity on the desired results and then they get out of the way and leave the individual with maximum freedom to perform.

Let People Do Their Work
Lao-Tse, the great Chinese philosopher, had this idea when he wrote, "A leader is best when people barely know he exists... when his work is done, his aim fulfilled, they will say, 'We did this ourselves.'"

In a recent study, thousands of people were asked to describe their best bosses. Over and over, the respondents said things like, "I hardly saw him" or "He left me alone" or "He gave me complete freedom to do the job."

Give Them Freedom
There is something liberating and empowering to know that you've been entrusted with a major responsibility and that you've been given the freedom to fulfill it. When the right person has been matched with the right job, the conditions for exceptional performance have been created.

Confidently Expect Success
Another behavior of transformational leaders is their confident attitude of positive expectations. They radiate a belief in themselves and in the ability of their subordinates to succeed. They know that the leader sets the psychological tone for the whole organization, so they consciously project a positive attitude no matter how distressing the external situation may appear. They are in complete control of themselves and their emotions.

Action Exercises
First, delegate complete responsibility for results to your subordinates. Discuss and agree on exactly what is to be done, when it is to be done and to what standard. Then, get out of the way and let them perform.

Second, express complete confidence in your subordinate's ability to do an excellent job. Radiate an attitude of confident expectations. Even if you have personal doubts, never let them be seen by others. This is the role of leadership.

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Right attitude will be helpful at workplace

Having the right attitude can help you to be a successful employee at work place and can also lead you to move up.

No matter how efficient you are, if you don’t have the right approach towards the job, the results will be on the negative side. Each employee has thinking about many plans of his or her career and job in particular. Thus, the key to success begins with the realization that everything is matter of attitude and thus having the right attitude can be very positive for your career.

If you have the right attitude you are in a position to accept every situation the way it is and take on the challenge. Employees with the right kind of attitude can help take the company to the next level. However by right attitude do not imply positivity alone. It’s fair on the part of the employee to feel let down or unhappy about a particular instance or situation. Releasing anger in a productive manner is what matters for which the right attitude can help..

The attitude of an employee is one of the key attributes that is evaluated during the recruitment process. When it comes to recruitment the attitude of an employee and his / her belief in oneself   has as much to do as his / her core abilities and skill sets.  Their confidence levels appear to be at its peak and self-confidence is important..

Start with a positive attitude towards your job, your colleagues and the immediate Boss. Be open to ideas, and ready to expect as well as accept change in its different formats.

It’s best to form your own opinion about people / situations rather than following the hard mentality but before you do so remember to assess the situation objectively.

Therefore for any problem you may be facing, it is best to approach the concerned people and get it sorted rather than negative thinking about it. Unlike popular belief the job of the HR team is not just to support the requirements of the management. Happy employees are an asset to the company and therefore one of their key roles of HR is to ensure that employees are satisfied and their complaints are addressed properly and if new to the organization satisfactory clarification is given to them.

No matter how much you want to keep it at a distance you cannot escape negativity. It’s all around you. Therefore, it’s important to resist it for your own benefit. For example when you hear something negative from a colleague, understand that you may be getting only one aspect of the whole situation and the other side may be opposite of that. Therefore, be your own judge.

Humor and enthusiasm are two key elements that can always keep energy levels high. Try to find humor even in hostile situation. It’s not all that difficult there is humor in every situation. However, whether you identify it or not defines the kind of person you are.

Well, positive attitude is rated as one of the best traits. Being positive puts a person in command of his entire faculties.

Satisfied employees are more productive, work more diligently and enhance the organization’s brand value. Satisfied employees demonstrate commitment to service with every customer/client. Pessimistic employees, on the other hand, work to the advantage of your competition while on your payroll. They are usually depressed and transmit these emotions not only to fellow colleagues but also to the clients/ customers.

For example, there was a team member, who was not being promoted or recognized. He worked in the same position for almost ten years; he had reconciled to himself that he was not going to grow and that he was being tolerated. Then his boss started giving him responsibilities and reinforced his trust in him. The more he delivered, the more he got. The boss changed the trust quotient, and consequently the attitude of the team member also changed. The team member now heads the Admin team in another organization.

Not everyone is lucky to have a good manager. But remember it’s your positive attitude that will eventually help you chug along, while keeping up your momentum.

Attitudes display organization which means that they have internal consistency. The structure of human attitudes may be viewed as a Toy set erected in a type of circular pattern. At the center of this toy is the individual’s important values and self-concept. Attitudes close to the hub of this system are said to have a high degree of central point

Attitudes tend to be generalizable. That is, a person’s attitude toward a specific object tends to generalize toward a class of objects. Thus, a consumer who purchases a Honda car which develops mechanical trouble may believe that all Honda cars and possibly all Japanese made products are poorly constructed. Consumers tend to generalize in such a manner in order to simplify their decision making.

Attitudes do not stand in isolation. That is, because they are related there must   be some amount of fit between them, or conflict will result. A larger number of other attitudes exhibit a greater degree of consistency.

The length of time may not   be infinite. Attitudes are learned they tend to   become more resistant to change, the longer they are held. Thus, newly formed attitudes are easier to change and less stable than are older ones of equal strength.

Monday, March 7, 2011

Employee Relations: Effective Leadership is Key to Winning Program

Just as best-practice organizations need capable staff, so, too, do they need capable management. As the number of employee relations programs grows, there is a tremendous opportunity for those who want to rise to the level of management. Regardless of the program's maturity, effective leaders continue to balance their ability to look at the whole ladder, while never losing site of the individual rungs.

The manager's day comprises many parts that hopefully form a satisfactory work experience for the manager and for the team. The best managers have a range of abilities that form the right skill set for the role:

They help staff establish the right habits and stick with them. Good work habits are the underpinning for any position, yet it is much different when you can actively monitor work performance in an office or a unit than out in the wild blue yonder. The best managers find creative methods and design systematic tools to keep apprised of their team's level of effectiveness in the field. They use tools such as performance management systems, weekly reports, ride-alongs, and field assessments to create a strong work environment. They trust their instincts in this area. If a representative is slacking off on appointments, they are comfortable confronting him or her even when lacking hard evidence. The approach and finesse that is required in this instance makes a real difference among strong employee relations leaders.

They reward the positive. In a job that has a fair amount of rejection, the best managers find positives and recognize them. In addition, those who are good at their jobs add a full dose of pressure on themselves to keep up the pace.

They recognize the positive attributes of their staff, and they do so in front of others. They put team members' names in their reports and call out members when members have a good idea or create inroads when others were unable to do so. Personal recognition goes a long ways on a day full of rejection in the field.

They let people whine just a bit but continue to be proactive, as if to say, "Let's move on with what we can control-forward focus is the way to go."

They keep the internal team on task and accountable to its obligations. The pace and the list of tasks on everyone's plate including the operations staff is significant. Even when there are great systems in place, there are times when the changes asked for by the employee relations team may get pushed to the back burner. With capable management, there are regular and systematic reminders, and there are documented expectations based on the internal communication plan. This is a tremendous motivator for employee relations staff, not because the staff expects that problems will always be fixed immediately but because the staff knows that there is someone who will bird-dog the issue and always go to bat for the staff's needs.

There are innovators who push themselves and the team further. What an awesome attribute for a employee relations leader to have. It is that blend of intuition and spark that lends itself. It is the willingness to try a new approach to tracking or another way of looking at the integration plan with operations. It is not as though every idea is a magical success, but it does create wonderful synergy within the team. It creates market opportunity, even if only one out of every four ideas is a keeper. In the clutter of the market, that one idea may differentiate your services and cement a referral relationship. The part of innovation that separates great managers from the "all ideas, no substance" type is that the great manager has learned to share the idea, test it, gather feedback, and realize that beyond the idea there is a process for implementation that must be fine-tuned.

They create tools that demonstrate value. This is the attribute that is often the most obvious to people outside the department. Because the internal departments all have grids, outcomes, trended data, etc., they are interested in seeing if a "relationship program" can do the same. The best program leaders carefully think about the tools they need to be effective in creating the role, evaluating the role, reporting on barriers to success and advancing the position. Some of today's tools are created to assess what is working internally, while others are designed to show the program impact. Most of the best program leaders with whom I have worked will quickly create preplanning, out-come and issue reports. They balance measurement of activity in the field with the outcome and return on investment for the organization. With the ability to replicate the findings and report them out on a monthly basis, the best leaders use the database and other tools to more specifically home in on trends or market opportunities.

They make work fun. Of course, when you have oversight for a group of people who are gregarious, there is an almost mandatory obligation to lighten things up every now and again. Most field representatives are pushing hard to meet their weekly demands. The boss who can remind them they are valued, do something spontaneous, or make everyone laugh is a welcome addition to any management rank.

They are straight shooters. Every bit as important as a little fun in the workday is the ability to know that if things are not going well with performance or with the ability to fulfill obligations, the leader must work to educate, demonstrate expectations and critique behavior that is below the norm. The team appreciates that the leader requires adherence to baseline expectations not only for the field role but also for interactions and behaviors that are in keeping with the team's reputation.

They have the right skills. The essential skill is the ability to balance people issues and organizational needs. There regularly will be compelling needs that are gathered in the field, as well as from department leaders begging the relationship leaders to "go tell them about our new service." On both sides there needs to be careful management, the ability to ask good questions, to decide what fits with the strategic goals and what would be nice versus what is essential to address to earn more referrals. Both tactics have challenges. The expectation is that, regardless of the starting frame of reference, the right leader has the skills to create the right climate for success by working with both internal and external customer groups.

They are willing to be held accountable. There are many positions where it's assumed you are doing your part if people generally like you and you manage your budget. The leader who takes on the employee relations function needs to be comfortable with realizing that the program's success is measured by new growth. The leader is heavily judged on his or her ability to facilitate and manage this between internal constituents and the external team.

Certainly, many of these attributes are consistent with those you desire in every leader. Again, the difference here is that the employee relations role is relatively new to the BPO environment, so there is a lot of internal misunderstanding about what is expected and how valued it is. The manager is the "face of the program" internally, so program positioning within the organization depends on how the manager carries the role.

SEVEN PERSONAL QUALITIES FOUND IN A GOOD LEADER

1. A good leader has an exemplary character. It is of utmost importance that a leader is trustworthy to lead others. A leader needs to be trusted and be known to live their life with honestly and integrity. A good leader “walks the talk” and in doing so earns the right to have responsibility for others. True authority is born from respect for the good character and trustworthiness of the person who leads.

2. A good leader is enthusiastic about their work or cause and also about their role as leader. People will respond more openly to a person of passion and dedication. Leaders need to be able to be a source of inspiration, and be a motivator towards the required action or cause. Although the responsibilities and roles of a leader may be different, the leader needs to be seen to be part of the team working towards the goal. This kind of leader will not be afraid to roll up their sleeves and get dirty.

3. A good leader is confident. In order to lead and set direction a leader needs to appear confident as a person and in the leadership role. Such a person inspires confidence in others and draws out the trust and best efforts of the team to complete the task well. A leader who conveys confidence towards the proposed objective inspires the best effort from team members.

4. A leader also needs to function in an orderly and purposeful manner in situations of uncertainty. People look to the leader during times of uncertainty and unfamiliarity and find reassurance and security when the leader portrays confidence and a positive demeanor.

5. Good leaders are tolerant of ambiguity and remain calm, composed and steadfast to the main purpose. Storms, emotions, and crises come and go and a good leader takes these as part of the journey and keeps a cool head.

6. A good leader, as well as keeping the main goal in focus, is able to think analytically. Not only does a good leader view a situation as a whole, but is able to break it down into sub parts for closer inspection. While keeping the goal in view, a good leader can break it down into manageable steps and make progress towards it.

7. A good leader is committed to excellence. Second best does not lead to success. The good leader not only maintains high standards, but also is proactive in raising the bar in order to achieve excellence in all areas.

These seven personal characteristics are foundational to good leadership. Some characteristics may be more naturally present in the personality of a leader. However, each of these characteristics can also be developed and strengthened. A good leader whether they naturally possess these qualities or not, will be diligent to consistently develop and strengthen them in their leadership role.

Time for a Project Premortem

Time for a Project Premortem?In most organizations, it’s common practice to conduct “postmortem” or lessons learned review sessions upon completion of major projects.

If the project achieved its goal, management questions typically focus on what went right. What did we do well? How can we sustain this success? What could we improve to make the outcome even better?”

If the project failed to meet expectations, the postmortem tends to focus on what went wrong. Where did we get off track? How and when should we have adjusted? What can we learn from this experience?”

Postmortems play an important role in improving our businesses. But in today’s world, they may not be enough. I believe the time has come for leaders and managers to start engaging in “premortems.” In other words, to conduct the review process before embarking on major projects or initiatives.

In the spirit of full disclosure, I confess to borrowing the term “premortem” from a McKinsey Quarterly Report article entitled “Strategic Decisions: When Can You Trust Your Gut?” In the article, Nobel laureate Daniel Kahneman and psychologist Gary Klein debate the risks and rewards of senior executives using their intuition to make key strategic decisions.

Not only is the article a fascinating read, it also supports one of my core beliefs that today’s leaders and managers need to slow down in order to go fast. One good way to do that is by asking postmortem-type questions before, rather than only after, the fact.

Klein recommends gathering the project team and saying, “We’re looking into a crystal ball, and this project has failed miserably. Everyone take two minutes and write down all the reasons why you think the project failed.” This gets people to voluntarily engage in devil’s advocate thinking before the project gets started.

What’s the value in conducting a premortem?

For starters, it can identify potential problems that otherwise would not have surfaced until they caused major damage to the project. It can also change the dynamics of the decision-making process for the better. Rather than trying to avoid conflict and reach consensus as quickly as possible (a common cause of ill-fated decisions), people actively look for contrarian ideas to bring to the table.

In most cases, problems identified during the premortem won’t cause the demise of the project. More likely, they will cause the project to get tweaked in ways that will improve its chances of success. For the amount of time invested, a premortem is a low-cost, high-payoff activity. It is a simple way to slow down (just enough) to get it right versus go fast and do it over.

The article also suggests going through a checklist before approving any major strategic decisions. This may seem like focusing on the details rather than the big picture. But in this case, the checklist focuses on process rather than content, thereby keeping it at a high-impact level.

According to Kahneman, the checklist should include:

    * Quality of the information. Is the data coming from multiple independent sources or just one source saying the same thing in different ways?
    * Decision-making process. Did the team engage in honest, open debate, or did it engage in “groupthink” in order to avoid conflict?
    * Leadership deference. Did the leader’s opinion unduly influence others in a certain direction?
    * Group mindset. Did the group accept the data without challenging it? Was there a rush to achieve consensus that might have caused key elements to be overlooked?

To this I would add:

    * Assumption testing. What assumptions about our customers, our market and our industry did we bring to this project? Are they still valid? Do we need to update any of them?
    * Environmental scan. What has changed in our industry/the world/with our competitors in the past three to six months? What has changed outside our industry that might impact how we serve our customers?
    * Making stuff up (MSU) test. What are we making up about this project? What voids of information are we filling in? What decisions are based on our MSU’s (making stuff up) rather than on hard data?

In today’s business environment, customers, markets, and entire industries can change overnight. If you get it wrong the first time, you may not get another chance.

Obviously, you can’t have all the information every time you make a strategic decision. But by taking the time to identify what could go wrong before launching a project, you can have contingency plans in place before you need them. You can practice the thinking that might be required quickly if challenges arise.

“Slow down to go fast” may sound counter-intuitive, but it works. You can (and should) still conduct postmortems after the fact. But you will get a lot more bang for your buck by adding a premortem into the mix.